JEALOUSY AND HATERS BRINGS FUCKEDUPNESS

 

 

 

FUCKEDUPNESS My new word thanks to Lafayette of True Blood. When you deal with jealousy/haters you find yourself dealing with FUCKEDUPNESS. The traits of a jealous/hater female.

1. She never compliments you even when others around you do.
2. When u come around she's standoffish
3. She always wants 2 know how you're going 2 look when u go out so she competes with u. Or she plays dumb like she dont know how she's going to look because she doesn't want u 2 know (childish insecure BS)
4. She's very cautious of her man around you when you're not even the slightest attracted to him (INSECURE WHEN U COME AROUND)
5. She doesn't support your business or hustle she brings up someone else who does the same thing when you're trying to advertise (BLOCKER)
6. She only post unflattering pics of you
7. She never post a pic at your best look
8. She hates on your relationship or give u guilt for hanging w/ your man
9. She fakes being happy for your success
10. She's not honest about how she feels so she makes excuses
11. She's all of a sudden very private (ALL OF A SUDDEN YOU'RE A THREAT WHEN U WERE A CONFIDANT w/ NO INCIDENTS)
12. You find her just staring (SHE MAYBE ADMIRING U OR HATIN ON U MOST LIKELY HATE)
13. She always point out a flaw EXAMPLE: your hair looks good (she points out a curl that's loose) or something u made looks good everyone hooray she's the only one that points out its not centered like all of a sudden shes a fucking expert at YOUR craft not hers! she couldnt even begin to do what u do even if she tried.
14. A deal comes around you look out for her but she doesn't look out for you, you will hear oh I never thought u would like it when she know thats your style.
15. You disclosed your plans now your plans is her plans
16. When something is directed to u in a good way she have something negative or slick to say.
17. She's only ok with your friendship as long as shes the one that stays on top (success, job, $, looks) never can u be on the same level or rise above her
18. When she reminds u of what u were before your success
19. She brings up things from your past
20. She hates on your personality because it makes u highly favored, requested and the life of the party! no matter where she goes she has to hear where's so and so (YOU)
21. She hates on a new purchase of yours or point out she have one used to have one or theres a newer one instead of just being excited cause u are and it may not be new but its new to you!
22. Always comparing eachother when there's no comparison were all individuals.
23. Try to make u insecure with your looks or body. U look great but____. Women especially a jealous one always target a womans look because to woman our looks are very important to us so it's an easy target to hurt someone.
24. She hate on your gifts or your comfortable life from the fruits of your partner labeling you a goal digger, unambitious, lazy or a loafer when your man finds it a beautiful thing & something he enjoys by spoiling the love of his life, his queen. THE NORM. Because shes ranting on some Independent Women March. Not because your educated and make a nice paycheck means you're a better woman or even a good woman. If you so got it and don't need a man than just shut up cause you're obviously MAN enough for YOURSELF.

MORAL OF THE STORY! I HAVE A KEEN SENSE OF VIBES. I CAN PICK UP VIBES AS SOON AS I WALK INTO A ROOM. MY INTUITION HASN'T FAIL ME YET! KEEP HATERS/JEALOUSY AWAY FROM U, IT BREEDS EVIL. WHEN SOMEONE IS JEALOUS IT CREATES AN IMAGINATION IN THEIR HEAD TO SEE THINGS ONLY A JEALOUS PERSON CAN SEE WHEN ITS NOT EVEN REALITY. HATERS, HAVE NO GOOD INTENTIONS FOR YOU. THEY WILL STAY IN YOUR COMPANY TO KNOW WHAT YOU'RE DOING AND HIDE THEMSELVES VERY WELL BY BLENDING IN BUT IT EVENTUALLY REVEALS ITSELF! ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU'RE A GOOD PERSON GOD WILL REVEAL THEM FOR YOU. 

TELL ME YOUR EXPERIENCE WITH DEALING WITH HATER/JEALOUS FEMALES AND HOW U HANDLED IT?

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